Is Your Child the School Bully?
- Agmo Junior
- Sep 3
- 2 min read
When we talk about bullying, we often picture victims — children who are pushed around, insulted, or excluded. But what if the child doing the bullying is yours?
It’s not easy to accept, but addressing it early can prevent long-term issues like aggression, poor relationships, and even depression in adulthood.
Why kids become the school bully?
Children don’t become bullies out of nowhere. Common reasons include:
Past trauma or neglect – kids who were bullied themselves may repeat the cycle.
Need for control or attention – some seek power by putting others down.
Peer pressure – fitting in with the “stronger” group.
Lack of empathy – difficulty understanding the pain they cause.
Warning signs your child might be a bully!
Look out for these red flags at home and in school:
Frequently criticizes or mocks others, even siblings or friends.
Gets into fights or often blames others for conflicts.
Has a “my way or the highway” attitude, struggles to share or cooperate.
Comes home with items or money that don’t belong to them.
Shows little guilt when caught doing something wrong.
What parents can do?
If you suspect your child may be bullying others, don’t panic — but don’t ignore it either.
Have a direct conversation. Ask about school behavior without accusing.
Work with teachers. Get feedback and collaborate on solutions.
Model empathy at home. Teach respect through your own actions.
Set clear consequences. Bullying must have firm boundaries, but pair them with guidance, not shame.
Encourage healthy outlets. Sports, coding, or creative programs help kids channel energy positively.
Breaking the Cycle
School bullies often act out because of pain they carry. With the right guidance, they can unlearn harmful behaviors and develop compassion and leadership instead.
At Agmo Junior, we believe every child has the potential to grow into a problem-solver, not a problem-maker. Recognizing the signs — whether your child is a victim or the bully — is the first step toward building a safer, kinder community.
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